Buying a mouth gag can feel overwhelming, but following these seven steps will help you find the right one.
Are you excited by the thought of being unable to speak? Do you enjoy the idea of seeing your partner gagged? Or are you looking to elevate your BDSM play? While using a mouth gag might seem intimidating, it can add a lot of excitement! Some enjoy the sensation of being silenced, while others appreciate the visual appeal of a gagged partner. Regardless of which camp you fall into, selecting a BDSM mouth gag doesn’t have to be confusing or difficult.
It’s important to understand that, although mouth gags may not seem as risky as some other BDSM toys, they do come with safety concerns. Wearing a gag can restrict breathing and make swallowing difficult, leading to drooling. In some cases, a gag may trigger a gag reflex. With these risks in mind, it’s essential to use caution to ensure safety. Let’s begin by reviewing the necessary precautions.
Safety Precautions with Mouth Gags
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Establish a "Safe Action"
Since a gag restricts speech, you'll need a non-verbal safety signal, or "safe action." This signal should clearly indicate that play needs to stop immediately. A common option is for the gagged person to hold a noisy item, such as a squeaky toy or keys, and use it to get their partner’s attention if needed. -
Ensure Proper Breathing
Never use a gag when the wearer is experiencing any breathing difficulties, whether due to illness, allergies, or fatigue. Additionally, never cover the nose or apply pressure to it while the gag is in place, as this can severely restrict breathing. The gagged person should never be left alone during play to ensure their safety.
With safety in mind, let’s move on to the fun part: finding the right mouth gag for you!
Types of Gags: Ball Gag, Bit Gag, or Spider Gag?
Choosing the right style of gag is crucial. Mouth gags come in several types, each with a different look and experience. If you’re drawn to the visual appeal of a ball gag, that might be your go-to. If you struggle to keep your mouth open wide, a bit gag might be more comfortable. For those who enjoy teasing their partner, a spider gag could be a fun option, although it’s important to avoid inserting anything into the mouth while using it, as it poses a choking hazard.
Choosing the Right Size
Many ball gags tend to be quite large, which may not be suitable for everyone, especially those with smaller mouths. When choosing your first gag, opt for a smaller size (around 1 to 1.5 inches in diameter) to ensure comfort. A gag that’s too large can strain your jaw and be unusable, so starting small is a safe bet.
Selecting Materials
Mouth gags are made from various materials, so it’s important to choose one that’s comfortable and safe to use. Silicone is often the best choice due to its tasteless, hypoallergenic nature. Other materials, such as plastic, can also work well, while jelly or TPR materials may have a strange taste or smell. Always clean your gag thoroughly before its first use.
Special Features
Concerned about breathing while gagged? Some gags come with built-in breathing holes to make breathing easier. However, they don’t eliminate the need for caution, so be sure to check for any rough edges on the gag before using it.
Cleaning and Maintenance
Since the gag will be in your mouth for extended periods, keeping it clean is essential. Silicone is easy to sterilize, while other materials like TPR may not be fully sterilizable. Always opt for a material that’s easy to clean and safe to use.
Picking a Color
Color may not be the first thing on your mind, but it can add an element of fun! Gags are often available in classic colors like black, red, blue, and purple, but you can even find novelty gags in unique options like candy gags.
Vegan-Friendly Options
If you prefer not to use leather, there are vegan alternatives available. While most gag straps are made of leather, some companies like ASLAN Leather offer high-quality vegan options.
Feeling more confident about choosing your first mouth gag? It may seem daunting at first, but by considering these factors, you’ll find one that works perfectly for you (or you and your partner!). Don’t be afraid to experiment—if multiple styles appeal to you, try more than one to see what feels best. Just make sure to buy from a reputable retailer and, most importantly, have fun exploring!